I’m From Staten Island, NY – Video Story

by will mcginn

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My name’s Will and I’m from Staten Island, and this is my story.

Dating’s been really hard actually. I actually went on a date with a guy, I forget his name, and I’m happy I forgot his name because we met at The Hose on a Wednesday night, and the name of that bar you can imagine what it was like. I was there with my friend Lindsay and he came up and he said he’d really like to get my name and number, and I said okay, that was fine, call me later. So he called me the next day and we went out to eat on that Friday. We were eating and I thought it went well, and I was excited to have met this guy. He started texting me after we left–I gave him a hug and thanked him for dinner–after we left, he texted me and he said, “So are we going to your place or mine?” I was being really naive I guess, I couldn’t imagine what he was even talking about because I had just met him, just had dinner with him. I texted back, like, haha, smiley face, maybe a winky face, just to play it cool. And he said, “No, really, am I coming over to your place or are you coming over to mine?” And I explained to him that I like to move a little slower than sex after Thai food on a first date. But he said that’s a lot slower than he likes to move so he would have to make a decision. So I said, “Well, I’m deleting your number.” And I deleted his number because who…I mean, how much faster could I have moved unless I was under the table during dinner? I don’t know, but funny things like that seem to happen to me all the time.


  1. Great story. It is so important that those of us who don’t want insta-sex hear about each other’s experiences.

  2. Gay or straight, some things never change. Never let people push you somewhere you don’t want to go.

  3. I liked your story, it made me smile. I am 47 years of age and I too like to move slowly. I also went on a date where the guy thought we were gonna end up in bed after the pasta. Who can screw after a big Italian dinner? He was pretty persistent and kept trying to push the issue in the parking lot of this restaurant. Anyway he used the line “I have needs.” My response to him was that I have them too and they don’t include sleeping with you. Stand by your principles. not all men want to hop right into bed. And if he really likes you he will be willing to wait.

  4. The first mistake was taking a girlfriend to the hose. I was there exactly one time, and I saw a patron give a gogo dancer a blowjob and rim job. Classy joint. The next time I tried going it was closed down.

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