I’m From Denver, CO.

by branden s.

When I was eighteen I had finally decided it was time…

I had graduated high school and decided to leave Denver, CO to move to the horrid town of Tulsa, OK. Attending college was my main reason but I did have an alternative motive… to start my life over where nobody knew me as an openly gay male, and it worked. Within weeks I had met my first boyfriend. I dated him for almost a year until my parents cut the funding off for my school because they and I agreed that the school was screwing me over. So I had to move back home. We tried to make the long distance thing work but that proved harder then I had anticipated. We still remained friends but decided it would be better to see other people.

After about a month of being back home I had come across the information that my mom’s best friend’s son had come out of the closet. I thought about it and realized…I know him very well and dating him would also lessen the impact of telling my parents. So we started dating and when I finally decided to tell my parents they just looked at me like they had known forever and just wanted to hear it from me. My mom said, “If you are coming out of the closet you are going to need something fabulous to wear.” We went on a shopping spree as I was now the closest thing she would ever have to a daughter.

The family friend and I ended up not working out and I met my current best friend and we tried dating for a brief moment but we were too much the same to hold a real relationship. I dated a few boys but some of them ended up being very verbally abusive. Finally at the wonderful age of 24 I met the love of my life and have been dating him for just about a year now and would not trade him for the world. I plan on going to Boston with him later this year and making it official by tying the knot.

Being in a relationship is hard but in the end if you want it, go for it. There is truly a happy ending for everyone, you just have to choose the right path to get to yours. Some of our paths might just be longer than others.

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One Comment:

  1. Love it. Congrats on the decision to marry!

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